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What was missing in the IVF process most from male perspective?

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What were your expectations during the IVF process?

How can one feel during the fertility process? How can we prepare for the process and what to expect?

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Andrologist, CEO Examen, Executive committee ARCS
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I think this is very sad for two reasons: it’s dreadful if the woman thinks that all the responsibility is on her shoulders and we’ve done that for so long to women in terms of miscarriage and also the man wants to be part of it as well. I think we’ve neglected men, we’ve pushed them to the side, we haven’t asked for their opinions, we certainly haven’t counselled men whose partners have been miscarriage and it’s very very settling for them too. So I think men want to be much more involved in the fertility journey and that’s why I think we should treat them as equal partners and we should talk about couple care for the male and female – not just a focus on the female.

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Fertility Coach, Infertility and Mental Health Advocate The ManCave
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I felt lonely, like I was just a random man in a corner but it’s a 50/50 process. The nurses, consultations and neurologists made me feel like I was part of the process. Regarding my process, it was donated sperm so I felt that I was needed, but that is not the case. I felt isolated, as if i was alone therefore a lot needs to be changed, moving forward.

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